The Greatest Gift

We can only get so far in life if we do it alone.  We can accomplish so much more, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, when we share our lives with people we deeply care about.  At the beginning of the year, three of my best friends and myself created a mastermind or a think tank for us to constantly work on personal development and hold each other accountable in all areas of life for creating and living with ridiculously high standards.  It was created with the intention for it to be an open forum as well as a safe place for each of us to challenge and share with each other as well as put our egos aside and display a level of vulnerability that allows each of us to tap into the very core of our being and grow. It has evolved over the months as we dive deeper into who we are as individuals and tap into a place that is only possible from sharing candidly with other people.  We have tackled life goals, relationships, fears, and ego as well as victories and dreams.  We have shared tears and frustration, anger and resentment as well as joy and gratitude, passion and enthusiasm. The core people in my life remind me what true friendships and relationships are all about.  It’s about love and connection. It’s about growth. It’s about tapping into emotions that are only possible through sharing with other people from a place of unconditional love and acceptance. 

Many times we choose to share our life with people on a very superficial level. We only share a piece of ourselves for fear of rejection or not being good enough.  We create a life of acquaintances that we work hard to “look good” in front of. We create friendships that are fun but never truly challenge us from a place that can only come from complete vulnerability. We end up creating a life that is pleasant rather than a life that is exciting and truly fulfilling. 

I am beyond grateful for the people in the “inner circle” of my life.  I am grateful for the opportunity to share with them without judgment and vice versa.  One of the most challenging things you will ever do in your life is tap into the very core of who you are and put it on display for the people who are most important to you to see.  It requires a tremendous level of courage yet provides for the space where true love and connection are found.

Love,

Matt